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Instant Communication, Covered Tracks, and Cheating Websites – Cheating Is Now Easier to Hide than Ever.

Secret affairs have been breaking marriage commitments as long as lovers have been saying “I do.” However, with the rise of the Internet, having an affair is now as simple as the click of a mouse or the touch of a smart phone. Illicit texts, bathroom phone calls, video chats – instant communication has made cheating easier and more enticing than ever before.

With the rise of technology-assisted affairs has come the rise in websites that specialize in keeping cheating hidden. Cheating wives and husbands are using these websites to cover up their acts of infidelity. The people who own them are making money by ensuring that their clients’ affairs are as sly and untraceable as possible. I witnessed the rational of one of these web-based companies, Ashley Madison, first hand when I was assigned to protect its CEO while he participated in a debate with religious leaders about the damage an affair can cause. There is indeed money to be made with these kinds of businesses, but there is also the inevitable damage that will be caused when the cheating goes wrong – and, as a private investigator, believe me, they all go wrong. Whether the other spouse finds out or the secret lover wants more, in the end, they blow up… and it is ugly.

What should you do if you suspect that your wife or husband is cheating on you? As the victim, the last thing that you want to do is to confront your spouse or even hint that you are suspicious before an investigation has been done. Tipping your hand too early could make gathering substantial evidence nearly impossible. Instead, it is important to step back and form a strategy.

First, there are some things to know in order to make sure that you can protect yourself in the future:

  • Do you know where the money is, how much there should be, and who handles it?
  • Do you regularly review your credit card statements?
  • Do you know about all the bank accounts?
  • Does your spouse have a P.O. Box? Do you have access to open it at your own will?
  • Do you have assets? If so, what do you have, where are they, and how can you protect them?

Once you have answered these questions to the best of your knowledge, contact a professional, modern private investigation firm with computer and digital forensic capabilities. Private investigators are trained to conduct a complete investigation to discover if your spouse is a cheater and to gather sufficient, court-upheld proof, if so. Even regardless of how thoroughly your adulterer’s assisted-affairs website has claimed to cover his or her tracks, with the aid of a professional private investigator and forensics expert, you will be provided with accurate details of the affair that can be used in court to protect your interests.

How Can a Private Investigator Help if You Suspect that You Are Living with a Cheating Wife or Husband?

Having a private investigator uncover an affair is nothing new, but grainy photos of a spouse checking into a hotel are outdated and inefficient. Forensic investigators are highly skilled at using the latest technology to retrieve hidden or deleted files, text messages, encrypted data, emails, and call logs. Even if your unfaithful spouse deleted all pertinent evidence, it is possible that a forensic investigator can recover all or much of it, protect your and your assets, and testify in court as to the accuracy of the information presented. Cheating wives and husbands, when presented with solid evidence collected by a forensic investigator, have no choice but to acknowledge their affairs.

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